Usuku lokuzalwa oluyingqophamlando, noma ngabe uhlanganisa iminyaka engu-50, 60 noma 85, kungaba umcimbi okahle kakhulu wokuhlela iphathi ekhethekile. Izakhi zephathi emnandi umsingathi omuhle, ukudla okuhle noma okuthakazelisayo, umculo omnandi - kungaba iqembu, u-DJ noma uhlu lwadlalwayo - imihlobiso ejabulisayo, okuthile okusebenzisanayo okungenziwa izivakashi nokuba yingxenye, kanye nengxube enhle yabantu abamenyiwe. Ungakwazi ukuhlela umcimbi uwedwa, unikeze umhleli womcimbi oyingcweti izintambo, noma ucele umngane noma ilungu lomndeni ukuthi lilawule. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani owenza ukuhlela, kunezinto ezimbalwa okufanele zicatshangelwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu ujabule - ngaphandle kokugqekeza ibhange.
Nansi indlela yokuphonsa i-bash eyingqophamlando ukuze uyikhumbule.
1. Hlela isabelomali
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthola ukuthi yini ongayisebenzisa. Uma usutholile ukuthi uyisebenzisa ngokunethezeka kangakanani, umhleli wephathi angakusiza ukuthi unamathele kuleso sabelomali. Noma, uma uhlela umcimbi uwedwa, ungaqala ngezinto zamathikithi amakhulu, njengendawo yokudlela nokudla, futhi uqhubeke nokwehlisa uhlu lwakho lwezinto eziza kuqala. Uma ubheke ukwelula isabelomali sakho, cabanga ukunciphisa uhlu lwakho lwezivakashi. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi usebenzise imali ethe xaxa ngesivakashi ngasinye ezintweni ezifana nokudla. Ungase futhi ucabangele izinketho ezahlukene zokudlela.
2. Hlela usuku
Nquma usuku lwephathi, okungcono kakhulu eduze nosuku lokuzalwa lwangempela lomuntu. Ukusetha idethi yephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kuncike ezintweni ezimbalwa, okuhlanganisa ukutholakala komuntu wosuku lokuzalwa nezihambeli ezibalulekile, kanye nanoma yikuphi ukucatshangelwa okukhethekile njengamaholide noma imicimbi ebalulekile.
3. Khetha indawo
Isinqumo esikhulu esilandelayo wukukhetha ukuthi umcimbi uzokwenzelwa kuphi.
a. Ekhaya
Ukusingatha iphathi ekhaya lakho noma egcekeni lakho kuvame ukuba inketho ethengekayo, kodwa kukhona ukuhwebelana: Ungase ugcine usugijima uqinisekisa ukuthi izivakashi zinokuthile okuphuzwayo noma ukwazi ukuthi igumbi lokugezela likuphi, noma uma nawe uthatha indima umpheki wasekhaya, lokho kungase kugcine isivakashi esihlonishwayo sisekhishini esikhundleni sokuxoxa nabangane. Ukuqasha umuntu ophakelayo kungabiza ngaphezulu, kodwa kuzokukhulula ukuze uphumule futhi uhlangane nezivakashi. Enye inketho ukuhamba ngesitayela se-potluck bese ucela wonke umuntu ukuthi alethe isidlo azokwabelana ngaso. Uma ufisa ukupheka, khetha ukunikeza okuthile okungalungiselelwa kalula ngaphambi kokufika kwezivakashi.
b. Ngaphandle kwesayithi
Kukhona noma yiziphi izikhala ezitholakalayo zokusingatha iphathi - kusukela egumbini lemicimbi esikhungweni somphakathi kuya egumbini langasese endaweni yokudlela. Ukukhokhela indawo ngokuqinisekile kuzobiza kakhulu kunephathi yasendlini, futhi kungase kuhambisane nemikhawulo, njengemfuneko yokusebenzisa umuntu ophakela indawo esikhundleni sokuzilethela ukudla kwakho. Inzuzo enkulu yephathi engaphandle kwesayithi, nokho, ukuthi ngeke kudingeke ukhathazeke ngokusethwa noma ukuhlanzwa.
c. Ngaphandle
Uma uhlela iphathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando yangaphandle, uzodinga ukucabangela izici ezengeziwe njengesimo sezulu, isikhala, nokusetshenziswa. Ungase uwuthande umqondo wephathi ye-al fresco, kodwa uzodinga uhlelo B noma ikhono lokumboza isikhala ngetende uma isimo sezulu singesihle. Kubalulekile ukuzizwa ujabule ngohlelo lwakho lokusekelayo ngoba maningi amathuba okuthi luzosetshenziswa futhi awufuni ukuzizwa uphoxekile noma ungahlelekile uma uhlelo lokusekelayo lusetshenziselwa iqembu.
3. Khetha ingqikithi
Akudingekile, kodwa ukunamathisela itimu ephathini kungaqhumisa izinto phezulu futhi kuyenze ikhumbuleke nakakhulu. Itimu ifana "nendaba" noma "umuzwa womcimbi wakho". Isetha ithoni yephathi yonke futhi kufanele yabelwane nabo bonke abathengisi ukuze wonke umuntu aqonde ukuthi izivakashi kufanele zizwe ini ngokushesha lapho zifika emcimbini wakho wokuzalwa oyingqopha-mlando.
4. Yenza uhlu lwezivakashi
Yenza uhlu lwabangane, amalungu omndeni, nabantu obajwayele umuntu wosuku lokuzalwa angathanda ukubamema. Isabelomali sakho singasiza ekunqumeni ukuthi zingaki izihambeli ongakwazi ukuzisingatha. Futhi, qiniseka ukuthi indawo ingakwazi ukuthwala inani lezihambeli ohlela ukuzimema. Ngezinsuku zokuzalwa eziyingqophamlando, qiniseka ukuthi umeme izivakashi ezimele isigaba ngasinye esibalulekile sempilo yakho, futhi ufake inhlanganisela yomndeni nabangane.
5. Thumela izimemo
Ukusabalalisa izimemo zomcimbi wosuku lokuzalwa oyingqopha-mlando kuyisinyathelo esibalulekile sokuqinisekisa ukuthi izihambeli ziyaziswa futhi ziyawuthakasela umgubho. Thumela izimemo kusenesikhathi, emavikini angu-4-6 ngaphambi kwedethi yephathi. Ungakhetha izimemo zephepha zendabuko, izimemo zedijithali, noma udale umcimbi we-Facebook. Faka yonke imininingwane edingekayo njengosuku, isikhathi, indawo, ikhodi yokugqoka (uma ikhona), umnqamulajuqu we-RSVP, kanye nanoma yimiphi imiyalelo ekhethekile.
6. Hlela usuku
Ukuhlelela usuku lwephathi yosuku lokuzalwa oluyingqopha-mlando kubalulekile ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi yonke into ihamba kahle futhi wonke umuntu uyawujabulela umgubho ngokugcwele.
a. Hlela imihlobiso
Ukuhlela imihlobiso yephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kuhilela ukudala isimo semikhosi esibonisa ubuntu nezithakazelo zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa. Hlobisa indawo ngokwendikimba ekhethiwe. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise amabhaluni, ama-streamer, amabhanela, izinto ezimaphakathi zetafula, nezinye izinto zokuhlobisa. Yenza imihlobiso ibe ngeyakho ukuze ibonise iminyaka eyingqophamlando nezintshisekelo zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa.
b. Hlela ukudla neziphuzo
Ukuhlela ukudla neziphuzo kwephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eliyingqopha-mlando kuhilela ukuhlela imenyu ehambisana nezintandokazi zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa kanye nezivakashi zakhe. Nquma ngemenyu ngokusekelwe esikhathini sosuku. Ungakhetha ukuba nesidlo sakusihlwa sokuhlala phansi, i-buffet, noma ukukhetha kwe-hors d'oeuvres nokudla kweminwe. Ungakhohlwa ukufaka ikhekhe lokuzalwa noma amakhekhe emcimbini wokusika ikhekhe. Hlela iziphuzo, okuhlanganisa neziphuzo ezidakayo nezingezona utshwala.
c. Ezokuzijabulisa nemisebenzi
Ukuhlela ukuzijabulisa nemisebenzi yephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kubalulekile ukuze ugcine izihambeli zihlanganyele futhi udale isimo esijabulisayo. Hlela ukuzijabulisa nemisebenzi yokugcina izihambeli zijabulile ephathini yonke. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise umculo, ukudansa, imidlalo, izindawo zokuhlala ezithombeni, izinkulumo noma amathosti, nanoma yimiphi eminye imisebenzi ethandwa ngumuntu wosuku lokuzalwa.
d. Thwebula izinkumbulo
Ukuthwebula izinkumbulo ephathini yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kubalulekile ekulondolozeni izikhathi ezikhethekile nokudala izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa kanye nezivakashi zakhe. Qasha umthwebuli wezithombe noma khetha othile ukuthi athwebule izithombe namavidiyo kumcimbi wonke. Lezi zinkumbulo zizokhunjulwa iminyaka ezayo.
e. Hlela inhlonipho ekhethekile
Ukuhlela inkokhiso ekhethekile yephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kuyindlela enengqondo yokuhlonipha umuntu wosuku lokuzalwa nokugubha impilo yakhe kanye nezimpumelelo. Cabangela ukuhlela isimanga somuntu wosuku lokuzalwa, njengombukiso wesilayidi wezithombe nemilayezo evela kubangani nomndeni, umdlalo, noma inkulumo esuka enhliziyweni.
f. Lungiselela izipho noma izipho
Ukulungiselela izipho zomusa noma izipho zezivakashi ephathini eyingqophamlando yosuku lokuzalwa kuyindlela enengqondo yokubonisa ukwazisa ngokuba khona kwazo kanye nokukhumbula umcimbi okhethekile. Bonisa ukwazisa ezivakashini ngokulungiselela izipho zephathi noma izipho ezincane ukuze uzibonge ngokuhambela umkhosi. Ukwengeza, cabanga ukunikeza isipho esibalulekile kumuntu wokuzalwa ukuze ukhumbule umcimbi oyingqopha-mlando.
7. Engeza ukuthinta okukhethekile
Ukwengeza ukuthinta okukhethekile ephathini yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kungawuphakamisa umcimbi futhi kuwenze ukhumbuleke nakakhulu. Nansi eminye imibono okufanele icatshangelwe:
- Ukuhlobisa komuntu siqu: Faka imihlobiso yomuntu siqu egqamisa izikhathi ezibalulekile nezimpumelelo empilweni yomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise izithombe, izikhumbuzo, nezinye izinto ezizwelayo ezihlelwe ngobuciko kuyo yonke indawo.
- I-Memory Lane: Dala isibonisi “somzila wenkumbulo” obonisa izithombe, izikhumbuzo, nezikhumbuzo ezivela ezigabeni ezihlukene zempilo yomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa. Izihambeli zingathatha unyawo zehle ngomzila wenkumbulo futhi zikhumbule izikhathi ezikhethekile ezabiwe nomhloniphi wosuku lokuzalwa.
- Ukuzijabulisa okwenziwe ngokwezifiso: Lungiselela ukuzijabulisa okwenziwe ngendlela oyifisayo okubonisa izinto azithandayo nezinto azithandayo umuntu wosuku lokuzalwa. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise ukuqasha ibhendi ebukhoma noma u-DJ ukuze badlale izingoma abazithandayo, ukuhlela iseshini ye-karaoke, noma ukuqasha abadlali abagxile ohlotsheni lwabo lomculo noma umdanso abayintandokazi.
- Imisebenzi yokusebenzisana: Hlela imisebenzi yokusebenzisana ekhuthaza izivakashi ukuthi zibambe iqhaza futhi zihlanganyele. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise isiteshi se-DIY cocktail, igeyimu yetimu ye-trivia esuselwe empilweni yomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa, noma umsebenzi weqembu ofana nokudweba noma ukwenza ubuciko.
- I-cocktail yesiginesha: Dala i-cocktail yesiginesha noma i-mocktail egqugquzelwe ukunambitheka okuthandayo noma izinkumbulo zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa. Inikeze igama elikhethekile elihlobene neminyaka eyingqopha-mlando noma isici esibalulekile sempilo yabo. Iphake njengesiphuzo esifakiwe ephathini.
- Ibhodi lomlayezo noma incwadi yesivakashi: Setha ibhodi lemiyalezo noma incwadi yesivakashi lapho izihambeli zingashiya khona imilayezo esuka enhliziyweni, izilokotho ezinhle, nezinkumbulo zomuntu wokuzalwa azozazisa. Lokhu kunikeza isikhumbuzo abangabheka emuva emuva kwesikhathi eside iqembu seliphelile.
- Isici esimangalisayo: Faka into emangazayo ephathini ukuze ungeze into ejabulisayo. Lokhu kungaba isivakashi esimangazayo, ukusebenza okukhethekile, noma ukuvezwa kwevidiyo yokuhlonipha esuka enhliziyweni edalwe abangani nomndeni.
- Iziteshi zokudla ezinetimu: Setha iziteshi zokudla ezinetimu noma ukuzizwisa okuphekwe okubonisa ukudla okuyintandokazi yomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa, izindawo zokuvakasha, noma uhambo lokudla. Lokhu kwengeza into entsha kanye nokuzitika emgubhweni.
- Imisebenzi yangaphandle: Uma isimo sezulu sivuma, cabanga ukwenza iphathi ngaphandle nokuhlela imisebenzi yangaphandle efana nemidlalo yotshani, umlilo ovuthayo, noma ipikinikini yokushona kwelanga. Lokhu kuvumela izihambeli ukuthi zijabulele indawo ezungezile yemvelo futhi kwengeza ivayibhu ekhululekile emgubhweni.
- Ibha yesnack yasebusuku kakhulu: Dala ibha yokudla okulula kwasebusuku kakhulu ehlanganisa izibiliboco eziyintandokazi zomuntu wosuku lokuzalwa kanye nokudla okunethezekile. Nikeza ngezinhlobonhlobo zezinketho ezimnandi nezinambithekayo ukuze wanelise izifiso zezivakashi njengoba iphathi iyancipha.
8. Qedela imininingwane
Ukuphothula imininingwane yephathi yosuku lokuzalwa eyingqopha-mlando kuhlanganisa nokuqinisekisa ukuthi zonke izici zomcimbi zihlelwe kahle futhi zihlelekile. Hlola kabili wonke amalungiselelo neziqinisekiso ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwephathi. Qiniseka ukuthi unakho konke okudingayo, kusukela kwezokuhlobisa ukuya endaweni yokudlela, ukuze uqinisekise umcimbi obushelelezi noyimpumelelo.
9. Jabulela umkhosi
Ngosuku lwephathi, phumula futhi ujabulele umkhosi nomuntu wokuzalwa kanye nezivakashi. Thatha isikhashana ucwiliswe emkhathini futhi ujabulele injabulo nesasasa lomkhosi. Gxila ekubeni khona okwamanje futhi ujabulele inkampani yabangane nabathandekayo. Qinisekisa ukuhlanganisa, ukudansa, nokudala izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo ndawonye.
10. Ukuhlelela omunye umuntu
Uma uhlelela umngane noma isihlobo iphathi, qiniseka ukuthi uqondiswa ukunambitheka kwabo nalokho abakuthandayo. Cabanga ngezinto abazithandayo. Sebenza ngento ekhethekile mayelana nesivakashi esihlonishwayo. Akudingekile ukuthi kube netimu yeqiniso, kodwa into ezokwenza ohlonishwayo azizwe ehlonishwa futhi ehlonishwa. Isibonelo, uma ohlonishwayo ethanda igalofu, akudingekile ukuthi wenze iphathi ibe itimu yegalofu, kodwa kungaba kuhle ukwengeza amakhukhi anomklamo wekilabhu yegalofu kuwo futhi unikeze lawo njengokuthandayo.