Isenokumangalisa, kodwa imibongo isoloko inempembelelo ebalulekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla njengoko inokubonelela ngenzuzo yokwenyani ngokubhekiselele kwimpilo yengqondo kunye nendlela abantu abaziphatha ngayo rhoqo. Ayimangalisi into yokuba isihobe sinempembelelo enamandla njengoko sivela kwiindawo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Nokuba ngumculo kunomathotholo, imifanekiso eqingqiweyo esesitratweni, okanye iindawana zentengiso ozibona kumabonwakude. Imibongo ikuyo yonke indawo, kwaye ngeendlela ezininzi, ayinakuphepheka ngokupheleleyo.
Nazi ezinye iingenelo zesihobe.
1. Inika ithuba lokudibanisa
Ukuqala, isihobe sinokunceda ekuboneleleni ngeyona nto iphambili yokuthetha kubantu njengoko kunokwenzeka ukutolika iintsingiselo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kwisiqwenga esinye sombongo. Oku kunokuvula iingcango zengxoxo ephilileyo nabantu abaninzi ngenxa yoko. Oku ke kunceda ukudiliza imiqobo engabonakaliyo abantu ababonakala beyibeka ukuze baphephe ukudibanisa omnye nomnye. Ubugcisa buvula umnyango wokutshintshiselana ngokukhululekileyo ngeengcamango kwaye uvumele abantu ukuba babeke umbono wabo ngendlela ekhululekile. Ngale nto, kuyenzeka ukwabelana ngezimvo kunye nengxoxo-mpikiswano njengoko utoliko lomntu omnye lunokwahluka kakhulu kolwakho.
2. Thetha nawe
Isenokubonelela ngeqonga eligqibeleleyo lokuba abantu baziveze ngendlela ebebengaziva bekhululekile ngayo ngaphambili. Ukukwazi ukubeka indlela ocinga ngayo novakalelwa ngayo ngokwenene ngamaxesha anzima kunokwenza umahluko wehlabathi njengoko kunika ithuba elibalulekileyo kuye nabani na ovakalelwa kukuba akakwazi ukuzibonakalisa nangayiphi na enye indlela kwaye ngokufuthi unokuthuthuzeleka koko akuko. ngokuqhelekileyo ihlabathi elicela umngeni kakhulu.
Ukuba neli qonga lokuzibonakalisa kunokusebenza imimangaliso kulo kuvumela umntu oneentloni kakhulu ukuba athethe izinto ebengenakuzithetha ukuba zibekwe endaweni. Ngenxa yoko, inceda abantu baziqonde kwinqanaba elinzulu kakhulu kwaye bakwenze ukuba uzijonge ngeendlela ongazange ucinge ukuba kunokwenzeka.
3. Yiba yiloo nto ufuna ukuba yiyo
Isenokungabonakali ngathi, kodwa imibongo inokukuvumela ukuba ube ngubani na ofuna ukuba nguye. Inika abantu ithuba lokuqonda ihlabathi elibangqongileyo, yaye ngenxa yoko, inokunceda abantu babe neengqondo eziphangaleleyo. Abantu banokusebenzisa amagama angengowamntu xa kufikwa kwisihobe nakubugcisa, nto leyo ethetha ukuba abasoloko bezibeka endaweni kwaye bayakwazi ukuziveza ngaphandle koloyiko lokugwetywa. Ukuba naloo nkululeko yinto engahambi nezinye iindlela zobugcisa, kwaye ngenxa yoko, iphantse yodwa.